Just the other day, I was asked the question, “Hey do you want to go to the club with me and my friends on Friday night”? Once this inquiry crossed my mind I immediately braced for impact. Reason being that it is not often that I would go with a female or someone I am dating out to the club scene. As I continue to ponder, I answered her with confidence and said …………. Yes!! Now it brings us to Friday with the thought of oh lord now I am about to go into the club with another female. You may now ask “what’s the problem”? Through my early dating experience (which is from 18-24), I never believe that it would be good “practice” to go to the club with another female. This is especially if you are looking to enhance the relationship. My rationale behind this is the “clinging to your mate theory”.
We have all seen the man or the women who stays attached to their partner the entire time in the club and not allowing that person to enjoy the atmosphere (this is totally not me). So bearing this in mind I admittedly was a bit skeptic about the scenario. On the contrary I asked myself “why would I not go”? I only came with one answer and that was “no reason”. I have now come to the point in my life where it is all about having fun and enjoying the people around you. Maybe during my early years my response would have been negative. That’s because now I understand that it is more than just looking at the opposite sex, trying to bump and grind or etc (whatever you do at the club scene with your friends, don’t lie). I feel excited and thrilled that I was asked to accompany them to the club. I believe with the company that I will be around that this will be a great night and I look forward to having many more. So stay tuned as I write part 2 of this story.
Signing off,
Truly yours,
//s//
Mr. Impact “the online alter-ego”
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I know first hand what it can be like taking somone who you are in a relationship with to the club. Most of the time, what was suppose to be a night out of fun turns into a heated arguement about what you supposely did or said while you were out with your spouse. It seems like no matter what you agree upon before you go to the club , someone always end up getting jealous over the smallest things that occurs and it sparks a series of arguements to come for the rest of the night. I personal from experience wouldn't go out with someone who I was in a relationship with unless I planned on being "clinging" all night just cause the moments that I have strayed away for just two seconds ended up being the turnging points for the rest of the night.
Your blogs are very interesting and I like how you to put your own personal experiences into it. looking forward to reading more.
Nikita
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