You are now in (drum roll) "The Impact Place." The purpose for this site is to share a variety of issues and topics that may have an impact on society. This can be anything from relationships, finances, crime, drugs, politics and etc. As you readers come across, give me feedback to let me know (Mr. Impact) what you are thinking. Also please (and I really mean it) do not be offended.
Now for my first topic I will cover relationships. This will be covered over the next 7 to 8 weeks (maybe even longer). This subject arisen due to my lack of success for the understanding of what it takes to get into and maintain a relationship (that does not mean I am a bad boy ok folks). Maybe you all can help me and others. Now do not think this is a cry of help. I could have gotten that a long time ago. But just a discussion rather on what you all think. Now I have some questions of my own: What is it that the mate looks for? Are we at times confused? What beliefs do we have? Where do they come from? All of these answers plus more as I will conduct some investigating into this topic. I guess its good to have an abundance of female friends. Makes the whole thing worthwhile.
Another reason I picked this topic, is because of the emotional attachment that it brings (you got to love controversy). Hopefully we can sit down and have our own "Fireside Chat" and discuss this topic and many more as this goes on. Well I must go now. Have to talk and get more ideas and thoughts from the opposite species. Also I will throw some things in here that you can comment on as well. You will get an opportunity to see some clips (you tube's finest) on a guy I know name Jae Green. He will really share some profound things with you as well.
Signing Off
Truly yours,
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Mr. Impact "the online alter-ego"
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8 comments:
What is this "Mr. Impact" silliness? This blog has left absolutely no impact on me. Try again later.
As far as relationships go, this could really be an interesting intellectual challenge: one in which you test yourself, find out what you really want out of life, and yet dig deeper into the psychology of relationships...
You mention in the last paragraph somebody named Jae Green. Is he a relationship expert?
A note: what, exactly, would be the opposite species? Do you mean the opposite sex?
Have we forgotten the reason why we date?
Well check out http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xJPu15ObFs
And see if we or you have?
Whatever.
MR. Impact “Corey B”,
In reading your intro, I have to say and it’s just my opinion, but society is a big part of the problem we have to day. It has made it so people are so uncomfortable with the way they look, feel and act. It took me a while to come out of my shell, due to comments from other girls when I was younger.
You were either too fat or too skinny, there comes a point in ones’ life where you have to find out what make you happy in life and forget what most of society and that might include your own family members.
To be honest, I am a female and I have been trying to understand, why some of us do such stupid things at times. I have a GF, she has a great is dating this great guy, would do anything for her, treats her like a queen, and she treats him like crap. I ask him why he won’t leave. He loves her and she knows it.
Yet you have other females who are wonderful individuals and can’t seem to catch a break. Then there is the emotional attachment, just watch the movie fatal attraction. Also some people fall faster than others. I would also say broaden your horizon when dating. Your blog will be enjoyed by many
Dood,
It was just a tad difficult to read the website (black background, small font) but I came, I saw, and I broke out the reading glasses. Sounds like you plan to cover a lot of ground on relationships. Each one promises to offer endless areas of discussion. There was one other blog on relationships and I am very interested to compare the male vs. female perspective. Why is it good to have an abundance of female friends? I wonder if females feel the same way about having male friends.
Mr. Impact Veronica has a great point. I have a couple of girlfriends who do the same thing they have this great guys who would give them the world and they walk all over them. But to tell you the truth guys do that more often than we do. I ask myself why we as females put up with either abuse both mental and physical, and why we will never say no to that one guy. Why we put him on a pedestial that in others eyes he doesn't deserve to be on. But thats where that phrase comes in "Love is Blind" and you should as yourself that question is love blind. For most people it is.
Well, well 'Mr. Impact'. Since you would like for me to leave comments on your blog I am here.
This sounds like you are on a quest to find what you are looking for out of life regarding a loving relationship. We have had these conversations millions of times. You cannot ask others what is it that a mate looks for. Everyone is looking for something different. What works for you, might not work for anyone else.
I think you know what it takes to maintain a relationship, but because of a few failed attempts you might be questioning what it is you already know. I also know that you will analyze this situation, analyze it again, and then analyze it one more time. Everyone you meet is not the one for you. And yes, this dating game is trying and hard. But when you find the one who is truly right for you, you will know it.
In order for a relationship to grow, you have to have the right conditions. Have you ever met someone who you thought was perfect, but the timing was all off. Something in your life or their's made it so the relationship would not happen.
To put this simply, have fun with the dating game, experience and try new things and wait for the perfect conditions where love will arrive.
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